About The Needs Languages


Resolving Conflict so you can be heard and happiness & belonging in your relationships

You are worthy.

Sit with that for a second and consider the impact of that paradigm on how you see yourself.

So, what blocks us from feeling and receiving our worth? Knowing who we are and being balanced in our identity. When we find balance in ourselves we can create our belonging.

What is belonging?

It is having healthy connections in our relationships.

Do you struggle with accepting yourself because of what others have said to you?

Do you wish you be happy with who you are and express your Needs?

Do you want to connect better in your personal relationships with your partner, and your kids at work?

Hello, my name is Nicole. After almost a lifetime of people trying to tell me who I was, I developed the business – The Needs Languages.

During the journey to my master’s in industrial-organizational psychology, my co-collaborator and I discovered The Needs Languages, a powerful tool that helps personalities communicate. With their help I wrote my first book, The Needs Languages Bringing Balance & Belonging in Dating.

After more research and with my own experiences, I wrote my parent book The Needs Languages Bring Balance & Belonging in Parenting.

With encouragement, I wrote two more books one for people in romantic relationships and one for the workplace.

I believe that we all ought to have the opportunity to discover who we are, and what we need and gain the skills to communicate that effectively.

Simply by doing this you help yourself find your community and feel happy and more connected. And when the struggles do come with others you feel more capable of resolving the conflicts in a healthy skillful manner.

Be sure to stop by the Books page and choose the book that’s right for you.

Shop here- The Needs Languages Books

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